An entrance to the Microsoft world, well hopefully!

Microsoft Protege (AU) 2011 Winner

14 Dicks!

Why is the blog getting more serious these days.. Part of growing up huh.. What happened to the biggest contributor Mr.Tan aka contractor. Prolly too busy building guardhouses.

Nyways let me join the seriousness of the blog.. I just come to realized that things in life are just so relative. We always compare things that are just the subset of an endless horizon at the expense of happiness. Relativity. No physics involve this time just Philosophy.

Perhaps working in an Investment Bank isn't as prestige as we all think at least for me so far. Just a bunch of ordinary looking people with a small desk dining at Ritz or Mandarin casually. Then again it is relative.. doubt all investment bankers could do so at a very early age. Even if you could, are you happy?

Coach fucking Carter

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

One of the best movie quotes of all time.

Dj Boys 07 Trip 2015

In relationships, man wears the pants but woman controls the zipper

Hi DJ boys, and fellow readers :D. My first time contributing a blog post, I hope I don't sound too long-winded.

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Questions regarding heterosexual relationships have been surfacing every now and then, a never ending mystery. In fact, both genders actually have very different perception, values and practices.

For example, the topic of sexual fantasies. Generally, men have more visual sex fantasies, and most of the times genital-themed and filled with explicit visualization. Women, however, fantasize less than their male counterparts. They are less visual, less focus on genitals and more likely to construct a story with emotional feelings of a romantic encounter. There's a saying that, most men needs sex to feel wanted, while most women needs to feel wanted before having sex. However, it doesn't imply that all men are sex-craving beasts and all women are not nymphos.

However despite the fact male and female are hypothetically worlds apart, we embrace each other's presence. If we put deep thoughts into it, such differences actually complete one another. For example, you like to cook but hate to clean. Your other half prefer to clean, cause cooking is alien to him/her. Things work out naturally sometimes, don't they?

Knowing the differences, both genders are actually seeking for the same thing from their counterparts;

intimacy - the state of comfortable familiarity

In relationships, argument happens. Sometimes you feel your man is behaving like a total prick, or your lady is acting like a total bitch. Bear in mind, there's a reason that 2 people are called "A Couple". The usage of preposition "a" symbolizes singular unit. Each person in a relationship makes up 50%, 2 person making it a complete 100%. So, if you feel your partner is at fault, you are might not realize you that you could be contributing 50% to the emergence of argument. It takes 2 hands to clap. When dispute happens, I believe both parties are at fault and should be responsible in rectifying problem with each other. Tolerance is the key.

Wouldn't you rather lose an argument than to lose your other half?

Make admends, clear the air if things are rough. Do not be ignorant and collect all the matters into a big-bad-bag-of-trouble, there's when you realize you're in a point of no return and being regretful and sorry is all you can do.

We can go on whole day debating on what men want, and what women want. What actually do we seek from our counterparts?

Men presumably the more dominant gender, is usually the breadwinner. They strive for achievements, recognition and reputation. Most of the time, man's business should not be interfered, sometimes you gotta let a man be a man. Excuse the egoism, men are born this way. However, men do have a soft side too, being by their side (but not appearing too clingy), knowing the way to their heart is a great way to compliment them. Ladies can be very vocal at times - it's good to voice out but if excessively, your words are redundant and could be whiny - something men don't fancy.

A female is deemed as the backbone of the dominant male, supportive, a figure of love and tenderness. But of course times have changed and females can be as successful as male or even more successful. Most women actually have simple needs; you don't need to catch a grenade or put your hand on the blade for ladies. Extravagant gifts, romantic candle light dinner are bonuses but not necessary needs. Ladies actually needs to be cared constantly, wishing their man put themselves in her shoes. Men, pay attention on the tiny details, fulfill them and your lady will be utterly contented. Example, a chocolate lover be brought to a chocolate fondue? Amazing to realize how small things can bring big joy. Simple yet complex player of this game of love.

In a nutshell, men want to be appreciated, women want to be adored.

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Good relationships don't just happen, they take time, effort, patience and two people who truly want to be together.

Single ladies and men - heads up. You might feel worthless to one person, but you are priceless to another. Never ever forget your value.

Lovebirds - adore, cherish and appreciate your other half. Express your love like there's no tomorrow. Never ignore a person who loves you, one day you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.

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Cheers, whether you're at U.K., New Zealand, Hong Kong, Australia, U.S., back in Malaysia or any part of the globe. Hope you're doing well :)

Sweet Heart.

'If friends were flowers, I'd pick you'. A very sweet line I must admit. Imagine it in a card form, wouldn't it make the girl go 'awwwwww'. BUT since our blog consists of only guys and Wei Kit has been recruiting more and more members lately, I'd like to welcome all of you new recruits by presenting you...

;) I'm such a sweetie, i know.

Since there's 14 of us now? I'd like to dedicate this card to ALL of you. esp to our newest member <3 Have a good day guys. Except for Siang. In the police station making yet another accident report. Still wonder how he passed his L's 3 years ago.

test test.

testing testing 1 2 3 ........

what the fuck

after gym i took a shower n wanted to change into a fresh pair of undies but couldn't find it. Thought i left it in the car but its not there either! im 100% sure i brought it out with me.

Which means that My underwear was stolen! for fucks's sake.

oh btw Joe, the KGNS male bangladesh attendant who called u 'kacak' is asking for u. shall i ask him to add u on FB?

Siang's Visit.

Just a week Siang came over to Sydney to have a look at this lovely city. Everyone in the group should make it a point to come over while I'm still here as I can be your tour guide. therefore, seize the chance while you still can.

This will probably be one of the few post that I'll post. I just don't see myself having the time to blog. Fortunately, the blog still goes on strong with our main contributor Yong Meng. Never fails to blog whenever he has the time. In my words, too fucking free. Even secretly took pictures of me while I'm at the cyber cafe(refers to the post below). God knows how many more pictures he has of me.

Back to the topic: Siang's visit. As we didn't had much time, I only brought him to tourist spots. I'll let the pictures do the explanations.

Queen's Victoria Building

Since this is my first time ever blogging, I am actually having troubles uploading photos. Could someone explain to me why the photos keep appearing on top of the post when I upload them?

As for now, I guess this would be the end of my first post. So happy Wei Kit finally invited me into the group. haha. Can I be one of the admins please?

Till next time I learn to use blogger better, I'll blog again. Oh, and before i forget to clarify things, slight mistake regarding the description of me. Cute? Yes. Nice body? Yes. Taken by Siang? NO. As straight as a rod. Ciao!

Lala chai

This is our newest member, LUM JOE SHEN.

Currently studying Civil Engineering in Sydney. The fashion trend setter among us DJ boys. Affectionately known by girls as a 'pretty boy' as well.

A peek at Joe during his off days. Dressed just like an Ah Pek.

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Dinner With Charity

Love the new blog outlook. Kudos to WEI KIT.

N yes I agree with WK, we need more contributors. (i.e: jesse, weng fai, jason poon HAHAHA, seng tuck & roshern)

How about we add more of the DJ guys into this blog? (Joe shen, Yoong ken, Boon, Yi Han or anyone else for that matter?)

Recently, YI HAN & I had dinner with our beloved Ms. Charity & Winnie Nelson. For those of you who don't know, Ms. Charity was our English teacher in SMKDJ when we were in 4 Cengal. Certainly one of the best teacher around together with Pn Koh. Mmmm Yummy.

Header.

With reference to the header, I believe it's time for a proper photo and for more contributors.

Yong Meng, you the man.

Flashmob

So a group of LSE students decided to do something crazy during the exam period. It's called, Flashmob. Check it out.

Click here.

And Yong Meng, where were you?

Take a break.

De-stress time.

There's been a lot of student-written articles going around the internet during the past few weeks. I don't know if its due to the increased intelligence level due to the exam period, or just students who are using it as an excuse to do something else other than study ha ha.

Anyway, here are two articles, the first one written by a friend of mine, and the second one, a response from another student studying in the States. Both have their own strong points, one from a realist POV, and the other, an idealist. Have a read and let me know what you guys think.

Tell Me When You Need Me - A Sceptical Patriotism

Skeptical Patriotism - WTH Is That?